"Escape the poison of your Impulses.
The sky will bow to your Beauty. -- RUMI"
Why be agitated about something you can’t able to handle? If it’s not possible now, maybe someday you will be able to do it. Even if you can’t do anything, why get confused? The feelings of confusion, displeasure, enmity come when you find something troublesome happening that you do not wish for you to happen. This becomes the root for inauthentic lives. So, what an individual must do to achieve Unconditional Happiness?
We live in a judicious society. People gather around with their preference and perception. From a group of high school boys who are immersed in studies to a crowd of busy techies in an IT firm. All these groups are walking towards achieving the certain vision that they have found with responsibilities.
Humans have always attempted to follow the path of the desired destiny. It’s Not something that any outer force can block or manipulate easily. But conflicts always arise when unwanted situations interfere, it’s common for us to come across such hurdles. But often we articulate these very atrociously. So why to show such unexpected exposition against odds (Which is the most expected truth of this world that no living can escape from!).
At the beginning of this conversation, I want to specify the facts of human psychology in a precisely lousy setting.
We all possess the inner instinct and potential to do wrong. We are enough capable of doing outrageous things, that we suppose can’t be done by us. I would object if you are disagreeing with me. In this context, let me ask you something about your workplace. Do you always take care of your people without any sense of annoyance? Do you always reach out to the roots of problems having no superfluous speculation? Do you socialize with others harboring enviousness?
It’s all about our unbalanced consciousness. We have two sides of your soul. One is filled with the sense of righteousness and other is Deviant. There is a thin line that separates these two worlds. And we uphold our foot proportion to harmonize our lives with this natural phenomena.
Obviously, maintaining such heroism is not possible, even as leaders. And seriously no one is expecting you to be the P E R F E C T because that’s almost close to impossible. Humans need to be expressive of their authentic self. But the question is,
The people who are the most drawn to darkness are those who are unable to acknowledge their own latent of evil. By imposing their shadowy actions with self - driven twisted logics on others, they justify their innocence. For them, it’s a self-defense mechanism to make your “own - self” escape from the sense of guilt. Their actions of destroying someone else is taken as the unavoidable sacrifice to restore the righteous order of their world.
The practice of “Engagement restoration” with others. Because in certain confusions and fears, any of us might do bad things. So, developing a real empathy for the people and understand what’s important at this point in time. By taking this steps you can build a supportive, sustaining and balanced container. You will also able to see the flaws inside you. Step - by - step, guide your story that finds true happiness.
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http://www.visiontemenos.com/blog/clean-slate-to-overcome-self-deception
